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| Black Steel |
I started this thread in another forum and would like to hear this communities opinion on the topic. With regards to general acceptance levels. Would the Filipino community accept a relationship between a black guy and a Filipino female, or would the community be more accepting of a white male? After all from a cultural point of view the black/pino relationship has closer cultural ties? Given that I"m black and have a preference for filipino woman I would like to know the communities closet responses to this topic. This forum presents a perfect stage for one to voice their honest opinions on this issue. I look forward to reviewing the responses. Black Steel, | ||
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| ripon Posts: 1 ![]() Joined: 2013-03-10 User Profile |
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| Shannelle Posts: 1 ![]() Joined: 2013-01-18 User Profile |
Hi, there are lots of black guys here in the Philippines.. I'm not a racist in any nation but I found black guy is more attractive and tough, got more sense of humor and they have goals and dreams. They really know what they want to be exact their more matured than Filipino guys. But some of the young black guys here are students do they just play around. Base on my experience and conversation with some of my black male friends, some of the filipina cheated on them that's the reason why they turn their back and do the same. Because of superficial love to black guys.. if your planning to marry a filipina, don't give first your trust,be with a filipina who has a good family backround. go to decent places not clubs or bars cuz you will definitely find a player. But be more observant if you'll be on those places.. Cuz to tell you the truth their our lots of filipina who goes after the money of the man they don't care about the feeling... But a nice girl and smart are hard to find in the Philippines... me I could say am a perfect match for a black guy but I was hopping the black guy that I'm chatting online...hope his my perfect match...
good luck for your journey of finding a filipina! Filipina loves black guy.. | ||
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| selena Posts: 1 ![]() Joined: 2012-07-02 User Profile |
skin color doesnt really matter i am a filipina, i myself find black guys they are good men and here in phil most people find white colors are attractive asian guys see white colors are most beautiful...either the filipina women too in there eyes whites are beautiful but not are all same i do find black guys attractive,... they are a good men, they know what they want, resposible and knows how to treat their women right...family oriented, down to earth and humble... im not saying all black are like that but, im happy to find one for me that is i can tell a goodmen, me myself was looking forward to have a date with a black guy. | ||
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| shadow Posts: 2 ![]() Joined: 2012-05-06 User Profile |
Now to the question at had. It is all on you. Filipino people are vey open. I lived there eight years and go back 1 or 2 times a year. They give back double of what you give them. So love them and they will love you more. But don't cross them. They come in groups... :-) . If you marry one they will not leave you unless you make them. Of course you have to get a real one, not one whom was tainted by Western ways. In short they do not care as long as you are a good person. If so you can find a good woman for life. She will stay with you, but it is up to you to treat her right. | ||
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| shadow Posts: 2 ![]() Joined: 2012-05-06 User Profile |
You seem like the one with a problem. I have been with my wife for 25yrs. How long have you been with your wife. | ||
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| bel42012 Posts: 2 ![]() Joined: 2012-04-29 User Profile |
I am a filipina and worked in sudan for 3 yrs and I like black people.. and i will still be working there just waiting for the new contract..if you love someone you will love the whole of him ..his color; his status; his smell; his religion; his family; his attitude; everything and anything becuase you love him.. does not matter if he is ugly or beautiful, tall or short, black or white, jobless or stable, rich or poor, .. am a filipina and we are not racist if we love ..we love unconditionally.. I am a filipina and am engaged with a black guy..he is the most reponsible; most loveable; most thoughtful; all of the good descriptive adjective is on him..he is simply irreplaceable ..besides i read some successful relationship between filipina and black guys..and am one of them.. | ||
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| peanutbutter Posts: 1 ![]() Joined: 2012-03-19 Location: America, but wish it was Russia cause there awesom User Profile |
this is not really that rare anymore one of the guys from the black eyed peas is half black and half Filipino and on that new show I forgot what it's called but it's about British models and American models in a compitition against each other but one of the American models on that show is half black and half Filipino and I'm sure if you go on youtube and look it up there are some half black half Filipinos posting videos about there heritage infact i'm starting to think there's more half black half Filipinos than there are half white half Filipinos i'm like the only half white half Filipno in my whole town! (well acturally the only person that even has a Filipino heritage in my whole town really) | ||
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brownskin![]() Joined: 2005-11-26 Location: Guam User Profile |
This is a reply to Sweetypants You are 100% correct. Have you ever visit the Country? its like going back in time about 50 to 70 years ago . Imagine we are in the 21 century and over there,they are showing shows like "Nita Negrita " when I saw this show on TV I had to pinch myself and ask what is really going on, this show is teaching the uneducated adults also the little kids to be racist against dark brown skin people in a nutshell you are ugly if you are not white if you have the white skin you are beautiful, no wonder most Filipino bleach their skin . So most of us cannot blame these girls this was taught to them at an early age by their parent to get a white foreigner life will be better and your kids will be white,also the medium (media) has a very big influence on these girls .If you have the time research NITA NEGRITA you will be shocked on the way most Filipinos look at afro-American and how they feel about you. Your money is welcome in the country but not you, you will be frond on for your complexion. | ||
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| sweetypants Posts: 1 ![]() Joined: 2012-02-29 User Profile |
(This is a reply to lacharchan) *ATTENTION!!!! DO NOT READ IF YOUR MIND IS WEAK!!!!* It seems that we are all forgetting that every girl goes after a guy for her own reason's and we can never truely say why a woman has chose a guy. Us guys like to big our ego's up and usually cannot tell if a woman is with us because we have money. I'm a Black guy for the record (so my views will obviously be more sympathetic towards one) and I hate when I see other Black guys disrespect thier lady or flirt behind her back, but the thing is every other breed of guy does this to. I feel we just are so used to exploiting Blacks, that we forget that alot of the other guys are treating thier women bad and that Blacks are just used as scapegoats to cover other peoples flaws. Another thing, I find it quite puzzling that races are so driven in convincing the world that we are "SO WRONG" to be with. Why does everyone always talk about reasons why you shouldn't date a Black man. Do people talk about the fact that alot of Whites are related to child malestation, sexual abuse, alcohol abuse, drug possesion the list goes on. Or the fact that Indians see women as inferior....but let's not be foolish. If you see a White person it would be sensible to assume that he is not any of those things unless he indicates otherwise. We should treat Black guys like that as well....but we don't! Let's stop scaring theese girls into not dating a Black guy and let them fall in love with who ever they want. Manipulating and pressuring Filipina women to be scared of Black guys is a sign of insecurity, it shows that you are afraid that if she goes near one that you will loose her to one. Mabey your right, mabey it's in your best interest to scare her away from a us. Mabey she would be so infactuated with one that she would leave you and stay with him. Mabey you don't treat them good and you dont want them to know that there is better out there. If thats the case, then I can't even blame you for scaring them away from us. If I had a nice Filipina girl and I was White, I would probabally be afraid of her going near a Black guy myself. I would feel that she is just with me because of my favoured image in society and that if she really had a choice she would rather be with the Black and that she is only with me because North America provides fairer opporuntiies for Whites and that I couldn't compare to them in a fair fight.................................................................................................................Well anyways, back to the topic. I see alot of Filipina girls with blacks guy and I personally think alot of Filpina girls are hot. They have a really niced tanned look. Kinda like Hawian or something. | ||
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| Csmoke Posts: 2 ![]() Joined: 2012-01-15 User Profile |
Really! come now it's in the numbers people can only play the role so long and the truth will come out. Who controls the media we sell the US as a place where everyone can have the American dream but! Don't play by the rules and your deported you know if we deport all the foreign people we all should qualify to leave. | ||
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| Chubshi Posts: 528 ![]() Joined: 2007-02-28 Location: Scarborough (born and raised, and still alive) User Profile |
Superior race? O RLY. Originally written by Csmoke on 2012-01-15 9:52 AM
Caucasian look it up people you all google where did the name come from the Caucasus Mountain from caves where did all of the dirty thing people do come from don't argue a point research it Black people were the first people EVE was the first woman born in Ethiopia , also most white women want Black man because we are superior race and there are other reasons also | ||
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| Csmoke Posts: 2 ![]() Joined: 2012-01-15 User Profile |
Caucasian look it up people you all google where did the name come from the Caucasus Mountain from caves where did all of the dirty thing people do come from don't argue a point research it Black people were the first people EVE was the first woman born in Ethiopia , also most white women want Black man because we are superior race and there are other reasons also | ||
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| rhowena Posts: 108 ![]() Joined: 2009-10-08 Location: Mississauga, Ontario User Profile |
LOL Originally written by titonarding on 2011-11-09 1:05 PM
hinay hinay lang mag post na lang kayo sa climate change. at least doon may scientific facts pa. | ||
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| titonarding Posts: 16 ![]() Joined: 2010-07-02 User Profile |
hinay hinay lang mag post na lang kayo sa climate change. at least doon may scientific facts pa. | ||
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brownskin![]() Joined: 2005-11-26 Location: Guam User Profile |
This reply is for Lucharchan have you ever stop and think why she hates people of darker skin color? The average FILIPANAS in the Philippine don’t have a high school diploma you need to go there to a public school and see their curriculum they don’t teach anything so most of these girls either work as bar girls’ helpers, or on a farm but they hide from the sun .Have you ever ask her what she used to do while living in the Philippines do you’re research you probably find her on the internet. It seems like the one you have has been through a lot living there and she thinks that the only way to be accepted is to take you (European). Most of these girls there love to be exploited by Europeans you can do her anything and she would not leave you, to most of them you are a god there are fascinated by your nose, skin and eye most of them has a very low self-esteem about themselves . look at most of the self-reliance educated Asian girls that marry a Afro-American the one who don’t have to depend on what their husband give them, now look at the one who you say are saying EEEEWWW my guess all she can offer you is sex and something to eat and give you kids there is nothing upstairs empty brain only the shell might look good because that what most of them talk about flawless white skin I don’t know where they get this from but there are not white yes you’ll fool them and they believe it . Now you say the Asian girl don’t love the black man she is using him for what? You are so stupid have you ever seen a young Asian girl Marry an old black man? If so she is using the old black man for his pension and to get out of the country now my question to you is who do you see most of the time with these old white guys that can be their father or grandfather? The young Asian girls (Filipinas) they want to be accepted by people that they are fascinated by. Some of these parents groom their little girl in the Philippine just to hand them to you’ll just like how the Spaniards use to tell their ancestors bring your daughter to their cabin it’s still happening just for the love of money so just don’t think that how they feel about blacks most is all about what you can give them, most think if it’s not white it’s not right that how you all exploit these girl from Philippine,Thailand,Cambodia east Asia.YOU ARE A RACIEST PIECE OF SHIT it a pity most of these girl are UNEDUCATED they don’t know no better. they jump to the first European that says hello or somelike they are intrested in them. | ||
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brownskin![]() Joined: 2005-11-26 Location: Guam User Profile |
Typical Filipinas, There are also white males that leave their wife or girlfriend what color has to do with this. So you are saying that it’s better to be with a WHITE MAN (European) because he will stay with you? But the BLACK MAN (Afro-American) would not respect you or stay with you, you are so PATHETIC and IGNORANT let me tell you this most of the girls here from the Philippines are girls that marry white old man just to get out of their country and those who marry the black guys are just using them to get here I see it every day here on the military base these black guys are stupid to go to this poor country for what I would call BAR GIRL,VAIN GIRLS. We got to remember this country been in slavery for over 365 years so they been brain wash by the Spaniards, and the Europeans and most are still in mental slavery today. I’m not saying that all the Filipinas are worthless those that were born in America aren’t nothing like the ones that migrate here they bring their racist ideas and teaching here and teach their kids, you seems like you are one of them. I’ve been there when Clark air base were there so I know how most of you feel about people that are darker than you and you all love to use whitening product and you’ll would do anything for a European . You may not like black people but an educated person knows that what you can find in a black person you also could find in a white. You need to take a good long look at how most people view Filipinas and why most of the young European don’t marry you all unless you all trap them into marry after the old one live there life they take you all to clean up after them lets be real now and you’re talking about let’s see if a black man will stay with them 12 years now and I’m still here but she were educated here she’s registered nurse. You know I can’t blame you for thinking this way most of you are educated by the TV like Nita Negrita This is the most racist show on Philippine TV- it teaches black/dark skin is ugly and that white/fair skin is preferable. Here is what a white man had to say about the Philippine February 18 2011 Dave Starr I often say one of the reasons I like living in the Philippines id that much of the overall environment and the way people are treated reminds me of my boyhood in the USA 50 or 60 years ago. Sadly, that includes the blatant racial discrimination I lived with while growing up. Racial and ethnic discrimination is not only a fact of life, it’s still considered acceptable humor. It hurts when I see my two dear little nephews come home from pre-k and kinder telling me how they got into a fight because other boys were picking on them because they’re ‘Negroes” (pronounced with a sort of ‘spit’ or derision at the end of the word). Their dad is Sudanese, with quite dark skin. Their mom is known around town, behind her back, of course, as ‘the one who married the Negro’. Every mall is filled with beauty stores who specialize in ‘skin whitening’. Every part of the body has special treatments up to, and including the ‘singit” (inguinal crease). There’s a lot more to cultural differences than a fondness for duck embryos and fish heads, believe me … it is -_not_ Kansas with palm trees, that’s for sure
FREE YOURSEL FROM MENTAL SLAVERY YOUNG LADY STOP BEING EXPLOITED
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| Timoy Posts: 1 ![]() Joined: 2011-10-30 User Profile |
Whatever. Show me a decent black man and I'll show you 5 worthless ones. All you women that love black men, tell me how you feel about your man in 3 years, 5 years and more. You won't be able to. You know why, because black men don't stick around. Many of them are lazy or possibly criminals. Generally they knock the woemn up and hit the road to their next hook up. Yeah, there is some decent black men. But they are the minority. So all you women claming to be in love with a black man, lets see if you're still together for the long term. Highly unlikely you will be. Facts are not always politically correct. | ||
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| bubbles Posts: 88 ![]() Joined: 2009-10-06 Location: Ontario User Profile |
"true Love is colorblind".... love this! Originally written by Miosioto on 2011-04-22 12:09 PM
Life is to short to stress out about this subject. I'm happy for those that find true love -- no matter the race. As long as it's for the right reason. Not to use a person or because you feel a certain color is better than the other. I look forward to finding the right mate. Thank God I don't limit myself. As a black female I've been approached my Asian men. Even dated one for a while. So remember this -- true Love is colorblind. | ||
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| ProudAfroAmMale Posts: 1 ![]() Joined: 2011-06-06 User Profile |
This is in response to this ignorant insecure person Lacharchan.You probalby responded from a internet cafe NATURAL LOSER. NO WONDER FILIPINAS are dismoralize by your kind.I seriously doubt that you are white. Probably a jealous insecure native individual who are seeing your woman prefer almost any male instead of you being capable of being capable of providing the basic necessities like a JOB, education, diversity, food and water.Most of the woman are provincial (Whites) target in the ASIA (the uneducated vulnerable ones). SOME whitemen are well known to be sex predators, posses slavery mentality and will pray on you, your kids male or female. Filipinas you may found yourself on some porn websites being exploited and your children found slaughtered in the gutter. I apologize for this insensitive statement but I don't regret it.There is a difference between racism and bigotry. A person married or dating outiside there race is NOT RACIST but can be bias against others. Most white males are insecure to blacks therefore racism from them want disappear. Why do you think they created the KKK! They were threaten by us and still until this day. More woman are MORE intrigue by black men period especially in the States. SOME woman are usually after $$$ from whitemen or other races particular the old and retired's that seeks filipinas or asians online. I would defend myself to if I NEVER had superiority but over another human is non sense. Not to say ALL white men practice Satan. Whitemen give filipna's a bad reputation as being loose and practice prostitution from bars and websites, etc. They come here to exploit the negative side of the Philippines and other countries like Thailand. Read and learn your history how you was made by the Spainards ignorant native. You probalby can't afford the bleach cream and injections these days. I'm sure the sun burns alot and your rejection from the white skin native erks you. Your confuse what you really are on the outside. Wanna be White and accepted by who? The Spainards are GONE! Come to the states and we will see how well you will be accepted but you probably cant afford to leave your on place with out a OFW visa paid in advance by the recruiter "Limited Mind" but its not your fault. Just blame Megellon. The Chinesse and now the Blacks. Go and clean some toilets or something and shout your mouth. Make use of it to against your corrupted people and government. You need to start respecting YOURSELF. [Edited by ProudAfroAmMale on 2011-06-16 5:14 AM] | ||
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| Miosioto Posts: 453 ![]() Joined: 2005-05-31 Location: Right Thur... Don't ya see me! User Profile |
Life is to short to stress out about this subject. I'm happy for those that find true love -- no matter the race. As long as it's for the right reason. Not to use a person or because you feel a certain color is better than the other. I look forward to finding the right mate. Thank God I don't limit myself. As a black female I've been approached my Asian men. Even dated one for a while. So remember this -- true Love is colorblind. | ||
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| sojuboy Posts: 1 ![]() Joined: 2010-09-21 User Profile |
After reading your ignorate post ive come to realise that you're not white but just a lying south east asianer who's looking for attention naah! You hate who you are and want to kiss the behind of some white person hoping to reward you with something. You should feel ashame, no black person has ever done anything to you and you make up stories of some pinay who is says eww to blacks , Liars will go to hell. why would she do that if she lived in the phillipines , there are many dark skin people and they are very beautiful in the homeland, like that. And if all this is true , that you are white man dating pinay then the pinay is using you to get green card loko, i live in Mactan and the father of my daughter is black american ( Haitian american and filipina my daugter is). he is so wonderful, my family loves him and no one say eww to him . So please dont lie, dont hate yourself and stop hating those who never do anything to you just so you can please some white man, hangal na bata!!!!!! | ||
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| killayut Posts: 3 ![]() Joined: 2011-04-05 Location: Toronto , Ontario , Canada User Profile |
Fi all the pretty Filipina , Am black , nice and easy going and very respectful and tolerant. I think we are all in this world to have fun as we live and die when the time comes . I like Filipinas and I 'd like to have any available sweet like nice one for a friend. I live in Toronto... | ||
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| blackasianwife Posts: 2 ![]() Joined: 2011-04-11 User Profile |
Originally written by shelltel on 2010-02-24 3:45 PM
... um i htink its fine that black people DATE filipino women.. but.. most filipinos would probably think since they are black, (then this is the part where its all racism and stuff) sooo they are like .. "dating that person is bad because they steal stuff and then commit crimes" etc. soo its just basically stereotypical and racist.. it sucks Filipino stealing too! i think black and filipino have the same culture...lol! when they say black are poor and so as filipino too! lazy and just love to criticized. [b][i]Filipino and filipina racist about black african american better shut up their mouth.[/i][/b] | ||
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| blackasianwife Posts: 2 ![]() Joined: 2011-04-11 User Profile |
Hey Lucharchan! i was reading your topic here about black and asian dating...iam a filipina married to black guy for 11years, i wanted you to know that not in general all filipina is using black guy just to get here in USA. And to those filipina who hated black guys are those filipina who are ugly betty and is also dark skin ofcourse! they don't want to get a very ugly kids because they are already ugly..lol! Filipina are so ambitious to get white men it's because their nose and skin are as ugly as black people, but look! once they have kids to white men the kids is not even good looking at all, it's just white skin but the nose still all over the place. [b]This ignorant racist thing happens when white men go to Asia and say something bad against black people...filipina was all brain washed...but if your a filipina that is open-minded and well-educated it shouldn't be happened. I've been here living in USA for long and i know not all white guys are good looking and rich, mostly good looking are asshole too! and they are rude...not all white men are normal they're weird and some are using filipina too treating their wives like a housemaid. And not open to helping family back home, they are so selfish and very bossy. I know all these shit about white men too! [/b] [b]so, whatever color your husband as long as they respect you and love your family that's what all matters most. God created equal.[/b] [b]Me and my husband married for 11years we are happy and our relationship still strong and hopefully there are still filipina who's like me that is not ignorant and racist out there.[/b] [b]Goodluck to all racist!!! may God Bless YOU all in anyway.[/b] | ||
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| PinayToronto Posts: 1 ![]() Joined: 2010-12-09 User Profile |
As a Filipina dating a black man for over two years, I am proud to say that I have never been happiar in all my life. He is honestly my bestfriend, has been for five years now. I get hate from family, black women, and filipinos in general. Now when I'm talking about hate, I don't mean the stare downs, that's normal for me now. I'm talking about black girls saying that I'm not black or that girls like me take all the "good" black man. Now filipino men... they like to talk behind my back saying things like "Oh cause she's CANADIAN!" in tagalog like I don't understand. Interracial relationships will face many discriminations, regardless or how multicultural our society is. I am 5'2, he's 6'3. We get stares. I may be Canadian born and raised but I was raised by Filipino parents in a Filipino household. Rice, Catholic, and the "white people will think they're better than you" speech when I was young. Now, getting back to my boyfriend. No matter his colour, I am ADAMENT that my boyfriend is with me because of who I am, not of my colour. Sure, there are things about me phyiscally that attract him to me and I to him, but race is only secondary to who we are as people.(Even though I hear all the time... BLACK MEN LOVE FILIPINO WOMEN...) Filipinos have given me much discrimination and alienation from my own "homeland" culture simply because I choose to remain muliticultural. I have been called racist. I have been casted out as an "outsider" because I choose NOT to conform. I am a strong believer that if you represent yourself in a positive and respectful manner, everyone will see you as such, no matter the race. End of discussion | ||
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