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Black Guys dating Filipino Girls
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2013-05-24 9:01 PM 149 replies, 113976 viewings  Add to my Favorites Printer friendly version
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carmend Posts: 9  Joined: 2010-10-15 User Profile |
Interesting commitment you posted here. its grat news for black dating personals. | ||
| BlackPinoy Posts: 5  Joined: 2010-02-28 User Profile |
Interesting commitment you posted here.... not! You’re treading in the gray area for being bias. I believe this is a poorly written and very rude of you to say ALL Asian women are looking for a free ride to American. If you haven’t notice there is plenty of women from Europe that is advertising themselves as mail order brides to come to the states. [Edited by BlackPinoy on 2010-09-21 5:18 AM] | ||
| Lucharchan Posts: 1 Joined: 2010-09-21 User Profile |
I am a white american and met a filipino when she moved to the USA, she is afraid and doesnt like blacks or hispanics, or anyone with dark skin. She has turned down blacks who have given her flowres and many other things. She is from pampanga, she has said many times EEEWWW to blacks and says she prefers someone with light skin.
What it comes down to is ALOT, ALOT of asian women will get with Americans to get them to bring them back to the USA, this has happened since Korea, Vietnam, and happens today even in many asian countries. They meet a black or white in what every foreign country and marry or have kids with them to try and come back to the USA..... Most Asians DO NOT!!! Like blacks, just use them. You need to look at the middle-east and how they treat blacks... So Dont think your asian woman loves you, she just is using you....blackie. | ||
| BlackPinoy Posts: 5 Joined: 2010-02-28 User Profile |
Communication is always good among ours friends, acquaintances and people we do not even know. This is a very good topic and something that sheds light on a subject that's taboo in most communities. Were all adults and should be respectful to other people's opinions in a tactful manner. You do not have to be a Filipino woman or have to be in a sexual relationship with a black guy to have an opinion on "Black guys dating Filipino Woman". As individuals, does it matter what their nationality or ethnic group the person is from that we date or cohabitate with? I hope not. Does it really matter... I hope not. Instead of focusing on the negative, lets shed some light on the positive. For example, if you're interested in dating a Filipino woman, start off by meeting her family. Learn some tagalog and if ever have the chance visit the Philippines to see what the culture is like and why FAMILY and their COMMUNITY is everything to them. I love my Pinay sisters and I let them know every opportunity the way I feel about them. Ingat, Shawn
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| Chubshi Posts: 528  Joined: 2007-02-28 Location: Scarborough (born and raised, and still alive) User Profile |
Well, you're partially right... perhaps. I'm not a filipino girl, and I'm not in a sexual relationship with a black guy... So yes, in that sense, I suppose that it doesn't concern me. Now, I didn't come out and say your question in itself was racist, I said it seemed racist, and even said that you may have not intended it to be so. Given your response, I'm starting to think I was right. And if I am right, then racism is something that concerns us all, or at least it's something that all of us should be concerned about. Welcome to the internet where anyone can have an opinion about anything! p.s. to "bump" a thread, simply means to bring it back to the front page of the forum. Originally written by digger on 2010-07-07 5:58 AM
the bump for the person who talks about anything does not concern him
WHAT DO YOU WANT IN ANOTHER MEANING.
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| digger Posts: 5  Joined: 2010-07-03 User Profile |
the bump for the person who talks about anything does not concern him
WHAT DO YOU WANT IN ANOTHER MEANING.
[Edited by digger on 2010-07-07 5:59 AM] | ||
| Chubshi Posts: 528 Joined: 2007-02-28 Location: Scarborough (born and raised, and still alive) User Profile |
Bump for the person that posted the new thread on this topic. In response to that particular post, I would have to ask: Why do you care about why women like sexual relationships with black men? The question you posed instantly seemed racist to me.. You may not have intended it to be so, but that's the way it came across. It seems like you are questioning why Filipino women would want to date outside their race, specifically black men (which is unfortunately for the black a community a question that a lot of cultures ask of their women). | ||
| BlackPinoy Posts: 5 Joined: 2010-02-28 User Profile |
Generally I believe Pinay women, love or have a real affection for African-American (Black) men. When dating Filipina Women you have to understand a few things FIRST about them..... everything centers around FAMILY and their obligation to their family. If you do not understand that you will not have a successful relationship with my Filipina sisters. All Filipina Women and men send money home to their family back home in the Philippines. First of all you have to be willing to meet the family, so they can meet you and give you their approval for dating their daughter, sister, cousin or family member. Second, you have to be willing to make sacrifices (contributions) towards your newly acquire family members back in the Philippines. Third, you're going to need to start learning tagalog. Filipinos know about African Americans is what they see on T.V and what they hear from other family members. They tend to stick to dating and marrying their own kind because they feel like the African American community won't accept them. There are a lot of barriers and huddles within our own communties that really do not need to be there. If you treat them with a lot of respect, kindness and always willing to help them out no matter what..... they will always remember your kindness and they'll be good to you...... always!! There are a lot of similarities between the Black and Filipino communities but you won't know unless you befriend them and work on getting to know them.
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| shelltel Posts: 76  Joined: 2010-02-14 Location: ON, Canada User Profile |
... um i htink its fine that black people DATE filipino women.. but.. most filipinos would probably think since they are black, (then this is the part where its all racism and stuff) sooo they are like .. "dating that person is bad because they steal stuff and then commit crimes" etc. soo its just basically stereotypical and racist.. it sucks
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| Zoriq Posts: 1 Joined: 2010-02-21 User Profile |
Sometimes a person's racist ways can screw themselves up. Two decades ago, I was very young and attractive as an African American guy, I still get compliments on a daily basis. Flashback, I pulled up to a prominent restaurant with my nice sports car and business suit and had gone inside for a bite. This particular restaurant had many young attractive Filipinas my age, but one extremely attactive one stood out from the rest and my heart almost jumped out my chest. We were about the same in complexion, she may have been slightly lighter. She had straight, beautiful white teeth and long pretty black hair and a smile that could kill. There was one problem, I was invisible to her naked eye and was completely ignored. I left the restaurant slightly disturbed, but didn't let it bother me. A month later, I came back to the same restaurant, thinking maybe she was in a bad mood and the same thing took place, ignored. I left disturbed again, but didn't let it bother me, but returned again in roughly 6 months, but she wasn't working that day. However, there was another one there, who was equally as pretty, but she was Black/Filipina with curly black hair and a extremely beautiful smile. She acted as if I were a king that fell from heaven and gave me a free dinner and flirted like there was no tomorrow. For a whole month we dated and she found out that I was extremely hard working and very talented in so many ways that she couldn't believe. I even helped her send quite a lot of money back home out of the goodness of my heart. Well, word got back to all the Filipinas (including the one who ignored) in the restaurant about the wonderful guy. The one who ignored wanted to see this "wonderful guy" for herself and when she did, it looked liked somone socked her in the stomach. The one who ignored, stood in the restaurant's doorway as we drove away in my sports car. My wife later told me that she (the one who ignored) mentioned before that she didn't like Black men. Some months later, I heard rumors that she was with a Filipino guy who didn't treat her right, he didn't help her send money back home. My wife of 20 years is so happy and she tells me this daily. Eveyone always ask her why she is always happy. Moral of this true story, you need to look past race, you don't always find happiness within your own race. | ||
| rosette Posts: 12  Joined: 2009-12-06 Location: Oshawa, On. Canada User Profile |
I was raised in the Philippines and was not exposed to other races of course till I moved here. This country has accepted me with open arms as a non-white person and taught me a lot about tolerance for all kinds of people. Black, white or green, we are all people. We should be judged by our character and not the color of our skin. So if my daughter choose to date a black guy, I have no qualms about it. www.adorable-kids.com | ||
| myfilipina Posts: 60 Joined: 2009-10-15 Location: toronto User Profile |
Canada is a multicultural country so I think its only natural to have people marrying people of different races and to be honest if they love each other then its nobodies business anyways! | ||
| brownskin Joined: 2005-11-26 Location: Guam User Profile |
Your statements are so full of * * I T . | ||
| Chubshi Posts: 528 Joined: 2007-02-28 Location: Scarborough (born and raised, and still alive) User Profile |
I can't believe I never weighed in on this topic as it has to do with inter-racial dating, and pretty much no matter who I date, it's guaranteed to be an inter-racial relationship. But I think the simple answer is you can't ask what the community on the whole will react like because that leaves no room for individual view points. I think it's better to look at what those related (family and friends, general social circle) to the person you're interested in will have to say about it, or how they will react to it. If the people surrounding the person you're intersted in are more westernized and not of the "old school", then I would suspect that there would be few problems and objections to the relationship. Forward thinking people today don't mind opening their minds and hearts to other cultures and embrace them. You still run across people (from ALL cultures) that think that theirs is THE best, and want to strive to keep the blood lines "pure". We all know it happens with white people, we've all heard of some black girls getting pissed at the white women who "take all their good men" (stereotypical view), and anyone who was ever on Asian Avenue in the chat rooms knows that Asians are the same. Though not Filipino, my dad (when I was 12 or so) asked me if I would ever date a black girl, to which I answered "why not?" The look on his face was priceless. The weird thing was he (being Chinese) married a white woman and had 3 kids with her (ultimately things did not work out, but that's another story). I swear he looked like he had been punched in the stomach and couldn't get his breath. Later on in highschool I ended up dating a black girl, and while things didn't work out in the end, it had nothing to do with race, and I never looked at her as being any different from anyone else I hung out with. I have yet to tell him about that one, but that's due to a lack of communication in general more than anything. So, to get back to my original point, to ask what the community as a whole will react like is a bit unfair because then it becomes a stereotypical response, or a response that will be based upon stereotypes. And no matter what the response is, it will not be because of anyone's race, but because of those individuals beliefs. | ||
| screw Posts: 348 Joined: 2002-05-15 User Profile |
how about black guys dating filipino guys? is that a problem back home too? is that another can of worms that deserves another thread? [Edited by screw on 2009-10-30 4:19 PM] | ||
| sweetcutie This accout has been deleted |
why not? as long as they both love each other then there shouldn't be any problem. And it's nobody's business either. | ||
| crystal This accout has been deleted |
I am a Filipina in love with a black man. I loved him not because of his race or color but because of his soul. Even if I would meet tons of men with white skin and lots of dollars, I woudnt trade him. He is my soulmate. God brought us together for a divine purpose in life. God doesnt look at the color of a person nor his or her past. And we cannot separate what he has brought together amidst space, race and time. In terms of appearance, he and I are not ugly looking either. He has an athletic built and a great body and he could get tons of american women. I too am not ugly looking. What a lot of the women who loved him found in him was his intelligence. He graduated from one of the top business schools in America with an MBA and is in a top-level management position. I am a specialist-physician by profession. And we are both in our late twenties together. I wont mind bearing black children. Race or color is not important to us. What matters is how we bring up these children with great values and the right discipline so that they will grow up to be productive members of society. I think our children are lucky because they are borne from two intelligent, hardworking and God-fearing individuals. I dont think our children will be discriminated if they are RICH kids. Money makes the world go round, you know. | ||
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| Nordenx Posts: 5982 Joined: 2002-08-17 Location: Hell on Earth User Profile |
Originally written by banzhee on 2007-04-14 8:57 AM advice ko lang sa mga filipina kung gusto talaga black guys and makasal and have children with them. utang na loob maawa kayo sa anak nyo at huwag nyo itira dito sa pinas yang mga chikiting nyo kase kawawa,tampulan ng tukso cla dito. Reality po yan dito sa pinas. TRANSLATION: My advise to any Filipina who really likes Black guys and happen to marry and have children with "them" (Blacks). I beg you, please, pity your children and don't bring them to live here in the Philippines because it would be sad, they will be teased a lot here. [b]That's the reality here in the Philippines[/b]. The reality in the Philippines is that the locals are prejudiced against dark skinned people, that much is true - Banzhee's advise and plea is well meaning but if you look closely, it's also a clear example of the fears and ignorance that most Filipinos back home have - the children of this interracial union will be Black and therefore considered ugly. My mom used to talk me into thinking this way too but she was proven very wrong when we gave her very handsome, smart, and loveable grandchildren. I would have no problem in bringing my kids home. 
My kids are racially mixed ("Half Black, Half Filipino, and 100% American" as my eldest would say). Those of you who argue against interracial relationships and use the "what about the children" excuse should be ashamed. [Edited by Nordenx on 2007-04-29 5:00 PM] | ||
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Surely ALL factors are taken into concideration ... persons character, personality, morals etc. and looks. Total package. As for 'it doesn't matter'.... I agree 100% .... race, colour, etc really don't matter as long as the couple are happy. It's their choice ... we should respect it. Originally written by Miosioto on 2007-04-11 4:17 PM But, that is no reason for a man to date another race. Just because someone is thin or petite should not dictate attraction. We forget all about the persons character, personality, morals etc. Honestly in my opinion it simply does not matter. I wish people would realize that... [QUOTE] | ||
| Miosioto Posts: 453  Joined: 2005-05-31 Location: Right Thur... Don't ya see me! User Profile |
Originally written by cisco2025 on 2007-04-10 5:51 PM
[QUOTE]Originally written by farrah on 2003-11-17 4:33 AM
No Offence to anyone, but I don't blame Black men finding interracial relationship outside their race. Here in Toronto, I hardly see any fine lookins Sister's. (Hear me now, judge me later) but Black women are typically big/fat people (just remember the word "typically")..but some Black men I know like that.
take care
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  [Edited by Miosioto on 2007-04-11 1:20 PM] | ||
| cisco2025 This accout has been deleted |
Originally written by farrah on 2003-11-17 4:33 AM
hello there!!! Well, just surfing the net and i found this site!!! What a cool and nice topic! Well, for me... AT first I never thought I would ever be in love with a black man... hmmm... but now, I think the most important thing when loving someone is not there color or race..right? the most important thing in this world is to have someone you can call yours and you are loving a man or a person who has a BIG HEART!!!
Anyways, I find blacks are sweet and caring!!!!
No Offence to anyone, but I don't blame Black men finding interracial relationship outside their race. Here in Toronto, I hardly see any fine lookins Sister's. (Hear me now, judge me later) but Black women are typically big/fat people (just remember the word "typically")..but some Black men I know like that.
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